Happy Valentine’s Day!!! <3

(my feels with a long-distance boyfriend)

Wishing everyone a day filled with love ❤ From friends and family and significant others ❤ 🙂 Have a great day!!!

Ramblings on life and love

Feel free to skim or skip but I wanted to get this out there. Everyone has something they just have to roll their eyes and groan at when someone says it. Some of mine? “I’m not good enough” and “I don’t deserve…” And “he/she is out of my league…” I’m going to say this and make it as obvious as I can.


This applies to a lot. You know why? Because it’s true. There is nothing you can’t do. Seriously. Have you seen the kind of crazy stuff that people are able to do or try or whatever? It can be truly mind blowing. And then you think, ‘wow, I wish I could do something like that’ Or ‘I could never do that’ and right there is the problem. Once you tell yourself you can’t then you can’t. There are no limits except the ones you set for yourself. Because once you do, you have set a psychological blockade in place. Sure some people will be better at or able to do things that you yourself can’t AT THE MOMENT/RIGHT AWAY. But here is the truly mind-blowing part:

you can be better at it than them

*insert shock and doubt and sarcasm and rolled eyes* it’s a crazy thought! I know. But it’s true. Try things, if you can’t do them and you want to, train and keep at them and you will get there. It might take you longer than others but you will get there. Sound like a dying walrus when you sing? Get a teacher. Everyone can sing, you just need to learn pitch and rhythm. Want to dance? Take classes, watch YouTube tutorials. Scared to do something? Do it with someone else if that’s what it takes. But don’t give up on what you want to do/learn/try because of something someone says or you say. Break the wall, or better yet, don’t put it up!

As for the whole out of someone’s league thing… Oh my gosh. Do you really think that appearances are all that matter or material things? No! I won’t say they have no impact but come on! Love and relationships are mental, physical, and emotional. Seriously. Looks matter initially but even that isn’t always true. There are tons of people who fall in love with someone they say that they normally wouldn’t look twice at. Because their bond is more than physical attraction. I mean, love is unpredictable. It finds us in the most unlikely or places and throws us for loopholes. But if you tell yourself that you are out of someone’s league you are tossing yourself out of their life because your insecurities will tear you apart.

As a side note: Money is not all that important either. I’m not saying it has no bearing, but if that is all that matters or a defining thing then that relationship isn’t right anyways.

Sorry for the long post, was thinking and wanted to get this out 🙂

Why does love hurt?


Being in love does not hurt. Its the disappointments with time that causes the amount of pain to the sorrowing heart. The inevitability that causes us to become entwine of each other, hence giving love an indescribable bliss but coming from such a fallen height it gives the illusion that love is also agony. Love can leave an imprint that can take forever to heal also being a nasty scar. For the weak ones, they give up so easily. They will try at their best to never open themselves to another and giving an artificial strength. But truly, it is those who never give up that are the strongest in this world.

taken from ms-raqii.skyrock.com/tags/d4SZtnnFaaS-why-does-love-hurt.html

So today is my boyfriend’s birthday…

birthday skeleton

Happy birthday Ry ❤ I love you so very much and am so blessed to have you in my life ❤ I can’t imagine a day without you in it ❤ I love you more than anything, because you are my everything ❤

You’ve helped me through so much and the last six months of knowing you has simply been a gift ❤ You’re always there for me and each day brightens exponentially when you are in it ❤ I don’t know what I’d do without you ❤ You are so special and wonderful and kind and caring and considerate and poetic and loving and charming and cute and adorable and accepting and supportive and strong and courageous and honourable and funny and pure and smexy and honest and trustworthy and playful and flirtatious and protective and sweet and mature and open and inspiring and responsible and expressive and good looking and humble and forgiving and fit and my guardian and and loyal and true and faithful and thoughtful and smart and genius and persistant and level-headed and talented and dependable and wonderful and special and unjudging and outgoing and silly and just… You are perfect ❤ and perfectly mine ///^.^/// I am truly the luckiest person in the world ❤ You are my angel ❤ My life ❤ My light ❤ my love ❤ my soulmate ❤ I couldn’t be without you ❤ I’m sorry that I can’t be with you on your special day, but I love you more than anything and had to make sure that you got the first HAPPY BIRTHDAY from me ❤ I love you ❤

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